Tuesday, January 18, 2005

Our first fight

This had to happen...

I forced him to come to the picnic... He didn't... Okie!

Reason? He had to submit some stuppid assignment! Well, he could have done it anyhow, but understandable!

Next day, I tell him about the fun we had and that i missed him... No much reaction... What followed?

Him: You meeting my girl friend today?

Me: Maybe, donno!

Him: Why?

Me: She hasn't still called up.

Him: OK!

Me: You meeting me today?

Him: (again)Is she meeting you?

Me: No, I think, we'll meet tomorrow!

Him: If you're meeting her, we'll meet up, is she meeting you? (YET AGAIN!!)

Me: OK

Him: Then, we aren't meeting.

WTF!!! If you have to meet her, why get me involved?

I always thought I had a different importance in his life. I didn't wanted to lose the place.

It's perfectly fine that he spends all his time with her...It's absolutely OK if he brings her along when we meet... It's understandable that he wants company when he wants to meet her... But, to hell with him if he wants me just because she's coming here to meet me and he wants to join...

The reason for him not attending the picnic was definitely not the assignment... I knew it, just didn't raise an issue... His girlfriend came in and told me the reason is something very different... i got pissed off... but I didn't reflect it... Yes, she is his girlfriend and he can tell her things that he wouldn't want to tell me...

He didn't talk to me for days... Even when we were together... He didn't stop me from being angry at him... He knew he could just casually start a conversation and things would come back to normal... But he didn't...

My friends ask me, 'Wazza matter?'... His girlfriend asks me, 'You in a cold war or something?' His friends ask me, 'You guys had a fight?'

I know he wants to solve the matter as well... But i don't know what's his problem! I ain't goina show that I'm desperate to solve it. Let me see him struggle. And if he ain't goina try, friendship kaa raam naam satya hai!!